• essays,  health

    The Origin of Pain

    Or, The Worst Thing That’s Ever Happened To Me – Yet! Or, How the U.S. Health System Fucks You Up, Then Leaves You High and Dry Or, The Insidious Ways Doctors Weaponize Women’s…

  • A pink dildo on a teal background.
    toy reviews

    Review: Portland Toy Co.’s Trinket

    Portland Toy Company is a queer-owned artisan toy company whose mission is to make “gender neutral, fun focused, body-safe toys for everyone.” Each product is handmade (the molds are sculpted from clay, and…

  • A set of differently colored dilators with two small vibrators and a bottle of lube.
    health,  how-to

    Dilating 101

    This is not intended to be medical advice; please consult with your doctor before beginning a dilating regimen. When I got diagnosed with vulvodynia and vaginismus, the most alarming part was finding out…

  • toy reviews

    Review: Tantus Mini Magma

    The Tantus Mini Magma is a funny little creature: with its curved head and drip-covered shaft, it kind of looks like a chestburster from Alien – albeit an itty bitty one, the cute…

  • essays,  Personal

    A Feminine Manifesto

    It’s been four whole years since I published my first (and thus far, only) book. Four years that feel like a lifetime and a blink simultaneously. Four years that I look back on…