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New Essay Series: My Favorite F***ing Movie
I’m very excited to announce a new essay series I’ll be releasing monthly all year long: My Favorite F***ing Movie is a personal exploration of sex through film, and Go (1999) is the…
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Life Update: The Bitch is Back
…the bitch being my cyst. Or me, I guess, if you count whiny little bitches. If you’ve been following the saga of my Bartholin cyst, whelp—it came back a few months ago. I…
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Bartholin Cyst Recovery Diary #3
Well, folks, it finally happened. Almost exactly five months after my traumatic, painful, entirely shitty experience getting an infected Bartholin gland cyst lanced and drained in the emergency room… I finally had sex…
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Book Review: Pointe of Pride by Chloe Angyal
I’m a firm believer in romance novels as tools for self-exploration. I think these books are an invaluable way to discover things about your body and sexuality in a manner that is virtually…
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Pride 2024 Queer Movie Recommendations (Part II)
There were not enough queer movies in the second half of June for my taste (are there ever, though?), but the ones I did see really blew me away. If you missed my…
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Bartholin Cyst Recovery Diary #2
I wanted to give a quick update, even though not a ton has technically changed. It’s been about four months (dang!) since my cyst became infected and I had to have it drained,…
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Against the Discourse
The world, and the internet, is in flux. While Twitter was once a subversive stronghold for opinions that are not often enough given the credence or the attention they deserve – minority opinions,…
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Pride Month 2024 Queer Movie Recommendations (Part I)
All the queer movies I’ve enjoyed in June (or, you know, close to June) thus far. New(ish) movies: Femme My favorite movie of 2024 so far, hands down. Utterly tense, shockingly sexy, and…
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Exploring Identity in the Internet Age: Imogen, Obviously by Becky Albertalli
Imogen, Obviously by Becky Albertalli is a sweet, very timely young adult romance about Imogen, a high school girl who thinks she’s just a “very, very dedicated ally” – despite her enduring love…
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Men, Call Out Your Friends
It’s time for men to take some responsibility for men. Every time I post something online asking men to call out other men on shitty behavior, I invariably get multiple responses from…
